Say thank you and be present...
Of course, the other side of this is learning how to accept a compliment.
How often has someone complimented you on something you’re wearing and you’ve replied with What, this old thing?
Or you get a compliment on some work you’ve done and you reply with It was nothing…
We often play down these things but it can feel very different to just allow yourself to accept a compliment.
Try not to make a reciprocal compliment in return as will negate the feeling that was meant as a result of the original complement
Just say "Thank you" and be present
Don’t add anything else.
And notice how it feels after you say thank you
No qualifying statements with how your action was no big deal, or your shirt or dress was only ten pounds.
Now make this a habit every time someone pays you a compliment.
I would love to hear your thoughts on paying and receiving compliments.
And if you would like to pass on this message of mental
sunshine to a friend please click here.
Next week is all about the simplest form of wellbeing exercise.
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